Dear Queenie,

  A guy I liked when we were in high school went away to college, got married and lived abroad for many years. Then a while ago he got divorced and came back here to live and when we happened to meet up he asked me out on a date.

  I thought we had a great time, but after that one date I haven’t heard from him again.

  Queenie, maybe he just lost my phone number? Should I give him a call?—Undecided


Dear Undecided,

  You can try, but do not be surprised – or upset – if he is just not interested. These days, what with Facebook and all the other social media, he probably could have found a way to contact you if he really wanted to.