Dear Queenie,

  My fiancé is living on another island for a while for his job and comes home weekends to see me. He has a friend there – a woman – he spends a lot of time and does a lot of things with.

  I know her and I like her, but when I asked my fiancé about how much time he was spending with her he got mad and shouted at me and accused me of being jealous and trying to control him.

  Queenie, was I being unreasonable?—Not jealous


Dear Not jealous,

  No. You were asking a perfectly reasonable question under the circumstances. Your fiancé was the one who was being unreasonable, for getting angry about your question. If this is the way he is going to treat you, perhaps you should think twice before you marry him.