Dear Queenie,

  When my niece got married I couldn’t go to the wedding, but I sent them a nice gift. Later her mother asked me whether I had given the couple any money and I told her what I gave them. She said I should give them some money too to help pay for the honeymoon.

  Queenie, is she right?—Wedding gift Etty Ket


Dear Etty Ket,

  No. You gave them one nice gift and that should be enough.