Dear Queenie,

  I have a serious medical condition that I am taking medication for. The problem is that the medication interferes with my ability to have sex and my wife thinks I don’t find her attractive enough. That’s just not true. I still love her and think she is so beautiful, but I just can’t perform in the bedroom.

  Queenie, how can I convince my wife I still love her and think she is just amazing?—Bedroom failure


Dear Bedroom Failure,

  Make an appointment with your doctor to talk about changing your medication. Sometimes a small change can make a big difference in the side-effects. Take your wife with you, so the doctor can explain to her how your medication is affecting you.

  And be sure to tell your wife often and show her in other ways how much you love her.