I have a good friend who is going to be a bridesmaid in my wedding. The problem is, she just got a huge tattoo on her arm and I hate tattoos, I think they are not attractive, in fact I think they are disfiguring, and she knows how I feel about them but she went ahead and did it anyway.
Queenie, I don’t want to have to look at it during my wedding and have the photographs messed up with that hideous thing! Should I ask her not to be in my wedding or can I just ask her to wear a jacket or sweater or something to cover it up?—Bridezilla
It is a pity your friend did not care enough about your feelings to wait until after the wedding to get her tattoo. Try not to look at it, or at least try to ignore it, during the wedding and ask the photographer to pose her in such a position that the tattoo does not show up in the photos.
And try not to let this bother you so much. There really are more important things in life to worry about.